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The opposite of love is indifference
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ÀÌ¿¡ ºñÇØ `a reserved person'Àº ´ëÀΰü°è¿¡¼ »ó´ë¿Í °Å¸®¸¦ µÎ±â ¶§¹®¿¡ ±×°¡ ¾î¶² »ç¶÷ÀÎÁö ¾Ë±â±îÁö´Â ½Ã°£ÀÌ °É¸®Áö¿ä. ÀÌ·¯ÇÑ ÀÌ´Â "I'm a quiet and reserved person(³ ¸»ÀÌ ¾ø°í °¨Á¤À» Àß µé¾î³»Áö ¾Ê½À´Ï´Ù). I'd rather be in the background observing people(³ µÚ¿¡¼ »ç¶÷µéÀ» °üÂûÇÏ´Â °ÍÀÌ ´õ ÆíÇÕ´Ï´Ù)"¶ó´Â ¸»À» ÇÏ°ÚÁÒ.
¶Ç "The British have a reputation for being reserved(¿µ±¹ÀεéÀº °¨Á¤Ç¥ÇöÀ» Àß ¾ÈÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ¸·Î À¯¸íÇÕ´Ï´Ù)"¶ó´Â ¸»µµ ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù.
°¨Á¤Ç¥ÇöÀ» ¾ÈÇÏ´Â °ÍÀº À§ÀÇ °æ¿ìó·³ ¿ø·¡ reservedÇÑ »ç¶÷À̶ó¼ Àϼöµµ ÀÖ°í, ¹«°ü½ÉÇÑ ÀÌÀ¯¿¡¼ ÀÏ ¼öµµ ÀÖÁö¿ä. `¹«°ü½É'Àº indifferenceÀ̾î¼, Elie WieselÀ̶ó´Â ÀÌ´Â "The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference(»ç¶ûÀÇ ¹Ý´ë´Â ¹Ì¿òÀÌ ¾Æ´Ï¶ó ¹«°ü½ÉÀÌ´Ù)"¶ó´Â ¸»À» Çß°í, Ireland Ãâ½Å ¿µ±¹±ØÀÛ°¡ George Bernard Shaw´Â "Indifference is the essence of inhumanity(¹«°ü½ÉÀº ºñÀΰ£¼ºÀÇ º»ÁúÀÌ´Ù)"¶ó°í ÇßÁö¿ä.
Clinton´ëÅë·É°ú Monica LewinskyÀÇ ½ºÄµµéÀÌ ÇÑâÀÏ ¶§ ¹Ì±¹¾ð·ÐÀº "Americans are indifferent to Clinton subpoena(¹Ì±¹½Ã¹ÎµéÀº ´ëÅë·ÉÀÇ ¹ýÁ¤¼Òȯ¿¡ ¹«°ü½ÉÇÏ´Ù)"°í º¸µµÇßÁÒ.